Are you one of those people cautiously avoiding counting your chickens before they’re hatched? What if you’re not around to see it happen?
Trying to mould someone to suit your own intentions will eventually wear you right out.
This is probably the best advice you will receive all day, so please pay close attention.
Sometimes an ounce of common sense is worth a ton of expert advice.
It’s been educational and fun taking some Trifecta Challenges, and now I will attempt to contribute to the community of Trifectans by joining their (at this moment) 248 members, whether they want me or not. Because really, who would not want to add another two hundred blogs to their daily reading list??? To be a true Trifecta member I think you have to be a little bit nuts, so probably I will fit right in. All it takes is answering some questions and adding the link here.
- What is your name (real or otherwise)? I submit my links to these challenges in the name of grandmalin. And in the name of love.
- Describe your writing style in three words. Here, there, everywhere.
- How long have you been writing online? Since 2006, so seven years. Seven YEARS. I should be very good at it by now, hey? Yes, I should be.
- Which, if any, other writing challenges do you participate in? Used to do Plinky until they started recycling their questions, try to do some WordPress Daily Prompts, Prompts for the Promptless by Rarasaur (two so far, and the next prompts will no doubt be equally awesome), and a monthly Post for Peace with Bloggers for Peace (and this one I’m very happily committed to, because it’s connected me with so many incredibly beautiful souls.)
- Describe one way in which you could improve your writing. I could leave my house and have some new experiences to write about. I might even try that one of these days.
- What is the best writing advice you’ve ever been given? Read, read, read. Read everything. Read the best of it again.
- Who is your favorite author? Absolutely impossible to choose, or even to make a list. Maybe my favorite has yet to be discovered.
- How do you make time to write? By never getting anything else done.
- Give us one word we should consider using as a prompt. Remember–it must have a third definition. Canny. 1. shrewd, astute or wary, knowing. 2. (Scot, Northeast English) good or nice, used as a general term of approval. 3. (Scot) lucky or fortunate 4. quite, rather: a canny long while.
- Direct us to one blog post of yours that we shouldn’t miss reading. This Star Crossed Lovers reblog was fun. However, if you do miss reading it, your life probably won’t suddenly be over. For something more serious (I do have a sort of half-assed serious side) click on the Posts for Peace category. And have a perfectly trifectally canny day.
Here’s all the interesting and pertinent advice from my tarot cards for today. (I don’t deal actual cards and make things up, I let my horoscope app do that for me, and then I just pick out the good parts and ignore the rest.) The reason there’s so much of it is because I ‘re-deal’ until I get something I like. This is also more or less how I live my real life. Dwell on the good stuff, turn my back on the crap.
1. Keep things on a light, even shallow footing and you will be fine. Deep topics can wait for another day. See how I’ve taken this advice already, writing a post with very little depth or insight? Okay, I know, it’s certainly not the first time. The rule that says to write about what you know doesn’t give me a lot of scope or options. I do the best I can with what I’ve got. Plus steal from the tarot.
2. At work under the combined auspices of the Devil and The Wheel of Fortune, restlessness and impulsiveness are at a peak. Don’t act without thought. Don’t allow yourself to get carried away by your enthusiasm. OMG, like that last bit has ever happened. Lately I feel like I’m working for the devil and she spins a giant Wheel of Annoyance to decide on the next area of distress and vexation. Then when we’ve got the chaos and frustration worked out of that one, it’s time to give the wheel another spin.
3. You will be able to indulge with great pleasure and good humor in the pleasures that this day has in store for you. Yay! Good for me. I hope I’m smart enough to recognize them when they pop up.
4. Take the occasional pause to breathe. Wow. That’s probably the best advice anyone could pass along to those of us who are inclined to forget the simplest but most essential things in life. I’ve seen what happens to people who stop breathing.
5. Try to find balance and calm in your life today and new encounters will be characterized by sweetness and gentleness. I am a big fan of balance and calm. I try to remember that happiness is all around me. Love is in the air. Peace begins within. We are all Gods children. Even though some of us are brats.
Okay, I’m ready to face my day. There is light at the end of every tunnel. The mist will surely clear. Forget being paralyzed by self-doubt. I have great inner strength and power and a glorious zest for life!
Gah. I think maybe it’s time to give the cards a brief rest.