From the WordPress prompt book: Have you ever made a New Years Resolution that you kept?
Well, of course I did. I kept them all. Just some of them better than others and for different lengths of time.
I’ve done all the popular ones. Get fit. Save some money. Lose weight. Drink less. Quit smoking. Eat healthy. Put my family first. Be a better person. So, you know, been there, done all that, with varying degrees of success. Perhaps my best one was vowing to no longer drink a whole pot of coffee a day. Then I got one of those coffee makers that dispenses a cup at a time and has no carafe. So you can’t drink a pot if you don’t have a pot, right? I never said I didn’t cheat.
Anyway, after all these years of making sensible resolutions, maybe it’s high time I became more daring. I should resolve to have more fun, do something crazy, go on an adventure, wear more purple, rock the boat, break all the rules!
Yeah. Now that I’ve scared myself sufficiently with the possibilities, maybe I’ll just calm down and keep it simple. Keep breathing, be content with the way things are and thankful for my ordinary life. Read more books. Be kind. Focus on the now, be still and listen, hold no anger, find inner peace. Easy things like that.
With retirement looming in the very near future (this September I hope) I am also looking at ways to spend all my glorious free time. I’ve always said I’ll take up painting again, so I resolve to do that. I will need a studio and lots of supplies. And some ambition would be helpful.
It’s funny how we think we need a brand new year to make a brand new start when every day is a new beginning. As far as I know, no one is ticking off points on a score sheet, measuring my progress, or waiting around to give me a grand prize for whatever I’ve done. Most days I like me. When I don’t, there’s always tomorrow to turn things around and be better.
Keep those resolutions non specific and vague, and you just might be astounded at your success.
I think in terms of the days resolutions, not the years. (Henry Moore)
No matter who you are, no matter what you did, no matter where you’ve come from, you can always change, become a better version of yourself. (Madonna)
I like the idea of keeping things non-specific and vague. This year, I think I will breathe more.
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That one is excellent. Everybody should try it. 🙂
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Thank you for starting my day with a big smile.
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No problem – you’ve done that for me many times. xxoo
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Do give up smoking, so you can enjoy many more years of blogging. I love your resolutions. Purple sounds good. Dianne
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I did give up smoking about thirty years ago, so I’m hoping all the bad things associated with it are long gone. I guess that’s one resolution I took seriously. 🙂
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I gave up smoking, but it wasn’t a new year’s resolution. They never work for me. I just went cold turkey in the middle of the year over a decade ago. It took at least two years before those cravings left my system. Now, drinking, that’s another matter. No amount of resolutions are going to make me give it up. (Hope Jazzy’s coming back soon). 🙂
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It is kind of amazing how long the cravings last, isn’t it? Yes, Jazzy will be back soon, mouthy as ever, wine glass full. lol
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I’ve never been a resolution or even a bucket list type of person. Not sure that’s good or bad.
Why should the new year be the date we decide to change? Yes… slow steps each day instead of drastic things that often don’t happen.
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It takes a long time to develop bad habits, (or even to realize they’re bad) so I don’t know why we’re surprised when they’re so hard to break. I agree, change is good, but a little bit at a time works best.
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