Have I ever mentioned how much I hate answering the phone? I have that exact cat expression except with a slightly more raised left eyebrow whenever the phone rings. (Oh crap. Who is that and what the hell do they want. I’ll just let it go to voicemail.)
I will make an exception of course if I’m expecting a call, or recognize the number and actually feel like talking, but those circumstances are rare.
List of possible reasons for my phone call paranoia:
- It might be bad news. Here’s a weird thing I remember from my childhood. Our phone rang and I said “phone calls used to always mean bad news, like somebody died”. After that profound announcement my mother took the call and learned that one of our uncles had suffered a heart attack and died. It was a strange coincidence, I’m not psychic or anything, but I’ve never forgotten it. Maybe this helps to explain the little jolt of anxiety a ringing phone still gives me.
- If it’s a telemarketing or solicitation call it’s hard for me to be anything but dismissive and rude. It’s impossible to but in because they never shut up, so I just talk over them and then hang up. After that I put their number on our blocked list.
- It is really frustrating to have difficulty understanding what is being said, especially if someone talks very quickly or has an accent. I’m so much better face to face.
Whoa. That last one is the biggest reason. I stopped after I wrote it and went off to do some research and this resulted in (YAY!) yet another list. Check out this site for the full version.
When you have a high frequency hearing loss, you may have trouble:
– following conversations (hear but can’t understand).
– talking on the phone.
– understanding TV shows or movies even when you turn the volume up.
– understanding young children’s voices because they tend to be higher in pitch
– enjoying music because it sounds distorted, especially at higher volumes.
– people think you aren’t listening to them or accuse you of having selective hearing
– you accuse people of mumbling
– you answer questions inappropriately or miss punch lines
– you smile and nod even though you have no clue what the hell is going on
Well that explains a lot. Why I turn the radio off with a sigh of relief. Why I always have subtitles running across my screen no matter what I’m watching. Why I can hear some things from rooms away but never the stove timer. Why my mumbling grandchildren are so hard to understand, and why they get so exasperated having to repeat themselves for me.
Sorry guys. It’s not JUST senility. Maybe I do need to seriously consider that hearing aid I was told I was borderline for needing. Or I could wait until I can no longer even hear the phone ringing at all. Decisions, decisions. Meanwhile, practicing that cat face but adding nodding and smiling to it.